The next time a monogamous person comes to me with problems in their relationship, I’m just gonna shrug my shoulders and say “Have you ever thought about fucking a whole bunch of people?”, as if that would fix everything.
Memo to the straight world:
Take your unsolicited advice about my sex life, turn it sideways and shove it up your ass.
A-fucking-MEN!
From one non-monogamous friend to another… if you need to talk, I’m here for ya.. but, you knew that right? ;-D
Well, fucking a whole bunch of people always works for me.
Okay, not always.
It usually works for me, but it has its drawbacks just like everything else.
Thanks honey.
Anytime…
You’re right, but, like you’re saying,(I think) people often assume problems in non-monogamous relationships are because they are non-monogamous.
Exactly.
From my experience, the constraints of monogamy actually produce the problems!
I think it’s a combination of expecting one person to fill all your sexual, romantic and intimate needs while at the same time denying your own desires for other people. That’s a lot of pressure, and statistically only half of us can live up to it.
60 % of all men cheat. 40% of all women cheat. We have an over 50% divorce rate. We have a whole society basing their happiness on somthing with the odds of a coin flip.